They say.... Love is always unconditional, free of ego, jealousy and possessiveness.....Is it??????????????

Well I differ here ... if the love is true and genuine it boosts your ego makes you feel on top of the world... makes you feel jealous of all the time(in seconds) your partner/lover spends with others or even with himself/herself because the need of being together bypasses all other chores n needs .... yes it makes you possessive about the other person as well... infact it makes a couple mutually possessive about themselves.... I guess these aforesaid facts make the four lettered word LOVE retain its charm.